Hidden Potential

We are afraid of the Blackouts but have you ever thought about the the blackout that is inside you?



You are not afraid of the dark, you are just afraid what you might encounter there.

Remember when you close your eyes, it is dark, you see no light. This darkness, this blackout is where Universe began. All stars and planets in the dark universe, evolving and again diminishing into the same darkness.

Black is not the colour of Destruction but also  the colour of surrendering. Surrendering to the END. Surrendering to the FATE. Every galaxy evolves, has its life cycle and then surrenders to the Dark. The Darkness is the hidden potential, the hidden  talents, the hidden life, the HIDDEN TREASURE.

Realizing your Dreams

LIFE is realizing our DREAMS, our ASPIRATIONS, our AMBITIONS. We spend our life thinking about best possible jobs which earn us more, but we forget  that life is more than that. Every person is born with talents. Some discover them and get into fulfilling the purpose of their life.



While  many others overlook  and see them as leisure time activity. And go on with their work which earn them  money and social status.

This is the pain of today's youngsters, from childhood the things that they liked so much to do, the things that gave them immense happiness are told to be waste of time. Money has become a driving force today, pushing us out of our creativity and dreams. Many die with Music still in them. The unfulfilled dreams and ambitions make a  person bitter. Not only with himself but with others too.

We get  life just once, one time. The gifts that god has given us make us different from others. Why to become a crowd that follows but have a following instead? I know money making  is not that easy (you might say) but not  appreciating the talents you have is really a pity. Money can buy all the luxury but not happiness, it only comes with doing something you love to. It is giving respect to who you are. Everybody loves Amitabh Bachchan, but he respected his talent, he grew his fondness for acting, many people discouraged him because of his height and heavy voice . But  the world knows him today as the actor of the millennium. Dream with your talents they wont let you down, dream with your capability and you would never fail. Don't become ATMs but humans who dare to dream and win .

Save a Girl Child....

Some time ago, when I was a little girl, I used to love my life and felt I was in complete happiness, when suddenly one day this dream broke as I read about people aborting girl child in India. HOW PITY.....  The very essence of creation, the most beautiful creation of GOD, how people of a land which is called spiritual, do this! How can they kill a child before she is born thinking of the consequences they fear.



Well what  shocked me was  that in India a GIRL CHILD is considered to be A BURDEN. There are some social problems like dowry ,death rituals , property rights, family name, etc...... The land I knew as spiritual, tolerant in herself had the biggest irony  - the country is HER not HIM, our "motherland" and still people are doubtful about a child so innocent who is not even born, a mixed expression of humour and sadness comes to me when I think of it.

The present is what past has made it. The attitude of man dominated society has changed the overall look and texture of our levels of acceptance of a women's behavioural pattern.Due to the so called vulnerabilities we have made her so weak that she needs a man to protect her from all the uncertain activities going in the society.Women is weak physically but emotionally she is a hard rock.That is what she is expected to be.She is the source of love,care and every emotion you can think of.But the irony is that a person who is a mother of a generation is looked down upon as a burden.Something which should be seen as a red alert.....If a woman is killed in the womb ,the entire generation of human being is destroyed but with that a person a child is challenged her right to live......her basic right of existence.



Well, the present situation is that the sex ratio has gone down so much that the government is in dilemma about what the UNICEF will have to say. The problem will not save the then girls or women from the evils of the society as many think. The less in number of girls would be subjected to a society where they'll have to fear the male who outnumber them.



The world has changed a lot , WOMEN are getting their share in every field all round the world, but their basic right of existence is questioned here. If we are not letting them take birth then no matter what reforms are - they are meaningless! I think a girl is a reason to smile for a father. I have read somewhere that where a father is not moved by his son's success, he gets painful by his daughter's tears. And how come the social evils force couples to kill their baby, I don't want to understand if I am to.



From birth to death woman is subjected to many harsh conditions.When a girl child is born ,people do not feel happy .They console saying its god's will as if a girl child is a curse for the family.People tend to forget that she is as important as a boy .Its just are perception, our  view that she is not that important.In ancient times women held high place.Deities like Lakshmi, Saraswati, Parvati ,etc rivers like Ganga,Godavari,Krishna,etc were worshipped.





But with time the place of women in society deteriorated. Women were not allowed to learn, i.e.they were deprived of education .Due to superstitions and social beliefs child marriage was practiced. Upon marriage dowry conditions .On the  birth of child the maternal family had to provide for funds and and on each occasion the girl's family has to pay cash or in kind Upon death of the husband they were subjected to cruel practice of SATI ,burning with the husband's pyres.Such was  the whole scenario in post independent India. Women was considered a burden. the present era though is not also harsh but fatal for women. Incidents like rapes, molestation, honour-killing,dowry still prevail while making it more dangerous to be a girl a woman...





Government can only make reforms but what about our own conscience?

People have to shed off the cloak of man and woman complex and see both as divine creation of god so humble so potentially equal.....Till we ourself uplift our thinking we cant do any good to the society as a whole .Woman is integral to the society and its falling number is a horror siren that is ringing on full volume.

 Educating people about the consequences of this gender going out of reach can significantly help.While there'll be number of boys in the country but  comparing to the number of girls,there will always be instability.



Its not India I am talking of and to, I am talking to each individual round the earth that 'girls are angels, let them fly, they'll make your world a blessing'. Give them a chance to enter your world. I have observed kids both boys n girls, the most wonderful thing that distinguishes them is that if you cry, a girl child would come and put her hand on your shoulder and try to console you but not that rat whom you bring all those chocolates. She would reveal every secret to her father b'coz a father is every girl's first love, whom she can't forget for any diamond in the world. She would fight with neighbors if somebody tried to scare her little brother , the one with whom she would fight without any reason but, for any reason not let anybody else touch him in the world.



She is a beautiful flower in God's garden, he has made her so for you to learn that when GOD is in a mood of love, forgiveness he creates a girl child. When you ask for forgiveness, he makes a beautiful gift for the mankind, the woman is his loving gesture!



                   I am neither a teacher nor a preacher........ I am a woman ....... and it hurts me more to read in news what is going on in the society......  I can only ask people like you who are reading this, please respect a girl child she is not a burden, give her a chance and she'll not let you down.... you'll be proud to be parent of a girl who'll fill your life with happiness, beauty and joy..... just let her live and help make this world a beautiful place and safer for her and others to live.......Even though the UNICEF is trying to get with nations around the world to have strict rules for the protection of girl child but it is up to the people to understand what can be the consequences if girls perish ....... imagine .... just imagine ............A WORLD WITHOUT WOMEN ..............................can you imagine even a day without your mom, sister or your wife. THINK UPON.......

What is Love?

LOVE - the four lettered word. A mystery in itself and for some a misery. Those who find true love are fortunate and those who don't are unfortunate. But what is LOVE which is in everybody's list ,the order of which can be anything from Love to money, job,  family, name/fame, happiness, satisfaction and so on.



      But still I wonder, what actually is this LOVE? What I found, I am sharing. What you find can be something different at all!

                  So, what I found was this:

         

LOVE is the feeling when a gardener sees the bud bloom into a beautiful flower. His hard-work brings

him immense joy.





             LOVE is the feeling when a farmer sees his crops flutter in the breeze.



             LOVE is the feeling when a Peacock dances in the rain.

             LOVE is the feeling when the sun is up in winters to warm the earth .

             LOVE is the feeling when YOU smile at ME and I forget my pain.

             LOVE is the feeling when YOU laugh and your laughter makes ME forget my despair.

             LOVE is the feeling when MY kids are happy playing with each other.

             LOVE is the feeling when YOU  hug Me when I  cry, YOU  make my sorrow little.

             LOVE is the feeling when YOU  gaze at Me, I feel I am beautiful.

             LOVE is the feeling when YOU look into My eyes and I find myself in Heaven.

             LOVE is the feeling when YOU hold  MY hand , I feel I am ONLY YOURS.

             LOVE is the feeling when YOU hug me tight, I feel I am safe.



             LOVE is the feeling  I  always have when YOU are away but still so close to MY heart.

           

            I feel YOU in MY breath and in MYSELF.





    For ME, LOVE  is not a  physical expression.

    For ME, LOVE  is beyond touch.

    For ME, LOVE is beyond possession.

    For ME, LOVE is the feeling I have for YOU. It is not an expectation or hope, but a realization that

    I have ONLY YOU on my mind when I think of MY LIFE.



     LOVE is the feeling YOU sometimes have for puppies n kittens and ALSO for GOD whom I LOVE not for any reason but out of the LOVE, I have for HIM............

Who am I?

        Who am I?  Somebody's daughter, somebody's sister, somebody's girlfriend, somebody's wife,

somebody's mother. But who is the real ME?  Relationships hold me, never letting me know, never letting me understand, never letting me recognize who am I?

               I am a girl, a woman, but is my identity only this? 



There is so much to reveal, so much to share, and so much to find and know. The scriptures say YOU CAN KNOW THE WORLD, BUT THE PERSON WHO CAN KNOW HIMSELF IS VERY DIFFICULT TO FIND. FOR FINDING THE SELF IS FINDING THE DIVINE (GOD) HIMSELF AND HIS WAYS. Very true, people want to find GOD. Finding or knowing GOD and ourselves is very difficult because we are very  unpredictable  in nature. People say that you can find about someone through his body language but I don't think so. That is circumstantial.

                Knowing myself is to spend time with myself. But days and nights seem to be too short period for that. I have time for worldly matters but for myself none. How ironic! Well, such is LIFE. Buddha got Nirvana in Bodhgaya under a Banyan tree where his soul found the divine, where he came to know the unknown. We fear the unknown,  for we are troubled not with what happens but from the outcome of the happening.

                I am bound with chains unseen. I feel the clutches hard to break, I want to be free,  free of these ghosts. Sometimes I feel Life is just a cycle moving in one direction. Happy moments are behind and sad ones are also moving far, I am moving towards DEATH without knowing why was I here and who I was............

Think upon!

Hello Blogger's there......

                  Following blogs is easy but to say you really understand what's being said is difficult.

The latest technology and social networking has made it so easy to give us access to information and entertainment that we hardly understand the importance of quality time that we spend in the virtual world.

Our families, our career, our studies need a lot of time to take roots but don't you feel that nowadays we 

have a punchline " I don't have Time" . I am not giving lecture on time but only giving my views that how

internet has restricted us within our rooms. We don't visit our dear ones now, as we used to do some time ago. Even wishing on birthdays, wedding anniversaries are now done with the help of networking sites. Are we not becoming more attached to our mobile phones, pc's and laptops???    

Remember the time when your aunt used to come in vacations with her kids and you all  liked to listen stories from her. I am sure you really remember the pleasure you had with your grandparents in the village when you were a kid. Happiness and pleasure never needs connectivity through tweets, blogs and comments just hearts.

So on this weekend try out meeting old friends and your dear ones not in virtual world but in real n actual world and see the expression of surprise and happiness that you would not have achieved through words on net.