The Confluence of Thoughts.....

                                                                               Confluence of thoughts is where we meet ourselves,where we see
ourselves,where we don't need a mediator to meet ourselves to face
ourselves, where we are with our own and on our own.It is where we can
judge ,we can introspect, we can question and give ourselves much
freedom to find the answers, all on our own.It is where we decide what
we have to do with our life and how.....





         

        Brain is a very strange organ of the body.It is where our mind thinks. An animal too has a brain and thinks, but we can think emotionally but can they? Their thinking is of different level. Our thinking involves intelligence and serves a purpose in the society while theirs only survival.

    

       Our emotions are the result of  the confluence of our thoughts.When we think of a rose,we imagine it, we feel its softness, visualize its color and its fragrance,even though its just a thought, we relate it to love and beauty.When we recall incidents of anger, we become angry there and then even though that is the past incident.Even though, our past incidents are not fruitful in the present,yet we recollect the incidents to either mourn or learn from them.But our past experiences good or bad ,our present mood and our concern for the future ,these are what bring us to the confluence of thoughts.

         



        Our thoughts are the blueprints of our deeds,the impact of them on our personality is always visible.What we think determines the person we are. The emergence of our failures or victory lies in the fact that how much we support ourselves, how much we respect and believe on our abilities and how much we trust our own thoughts.





       Confluence of thoughts is where we meet ourselves,where we see ourselves,where we don't need a mediator to meet ourselves to face ourselves, where we are with our own and on our own.It is where we can judge ,we can introspect, we can question and give ourselves much freedom to find the answers, all on our own.It is where we decide what we have to do with our life and how .

 Since birth we have so many people around us that we tend to forget that out thoughts are also with us everywhere,they are the witness of  our growth,our growth from a child to an adult.When we recall our childhood memories, we find so many of them full of innocence and happiness.Whatever we have learned ,whatever we have found and lost are the coins of that treasure which cannot be stolen.

         Life is a journey which takes a person to so many different places and gets a person to face so many different situations that the mind becomes a warehouse of thoughts positive and negative.These thoughts and experiences make a person  good or bad.The accumulation of thoughts and  images that had started  as a child end with death. The confluence of thoughts is where everyone lives and views how life has been since birth .How is yours? just THINK UPON......

                         

A Day becoming TODAY

"The Past is a smelly one, the Present is a sweet gift and Future an Undertaken project."

                   I can't tell you about Tomorrow because I haven't been there.The Past  is the recorded episode that I can rewind in my mind to gather the details of every movement I made, every dialogue, every word I uttered and heard . Every problem I defeated and  not only every laugh that  I laughed  but also every tear that I have shed . The unfinished assignment , I take up today to complete with pleasure or strain, is my choice . Today which started with a beautiful morning, chirping birds, cool breeze , fluttering leaves of trees and the Sun happy as ever an Old Man is.......

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                  These hours of extreme opportunities is what TODAY is made up of. The way you make this day, deal with its problems show the kind of perception you have for this day and this life.If you decide that today is the day when you'll live your life to the fullest with lots of smiles, laughter, joy and harvesting the dreams you have been nurturing so far, you will wait impatiently for the next day Tomorrow which will eventually become your Today to be full of possibilities and more happiness......





               Today is on which your Tomorrow stands. that Tomorrow , that'll be fine if your Today is fine.

That Tomorrow , that'll be great if your Today is great and That Tomorrow that'll be Superb if your today is superb. So, take action today, make it better every hour by doing better whatever you do and shape your future there on. You can only reflect on what has happened in the past. you can crib on  or learn  from the mistakes . You can learn the value of time wrongly spent and decide how to make today better than yesterday.

                                                                                                                                                                                     Each day well spent will become a beautiful chapter in your book of life and if done in a dirty manner will destroy the beauty of the story.It is up to you what you do to make this life beautiful, happy  and memorable. Think about what you'll give to your life rather than what life is giving you.If you look closely you'll find that life has given you so much that if it takes back all that it has given you , you'll be left with nothing at all. And so it is your responsibility to build on this raw life something majestic, something brilliant something unique that you  look back and say THIS IS MY LIFE.......

The Demon of Doubt

              DOUBT is the biggest invader of a human mind , it is often accompanied by confusion and fear .At any task undertaken ,it weakens the will power and a person's efficiency.The dilemma of yes/no often results in hasty decisions which affects a person's confidence.And the results is total loss of whatever is at stake.                       And in such a condition if we depend

on other people to give their opinion or suggestions, we are indirectly discriminating against our own talent .we are giving them the whole or partial opportunity to dominate our self confidence which eventually results in low self esteem and willpower. We do not trust our own decisions and every now and then we need someone to affirm and confirm our decisions.                                    

 The life we live is the mirror of our decisions and our dreams.What we have achieved, what we have lost in the process of achieving, what we have learned and what we have missed.The better we understand our own self , the better we project our self to the world .Even the doubt need a careful handling and a minute research before becoming a decision . Talk to yourself , question yourself, and  you shall find the answers to the questions are waiting inside you and  nowhere else.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       

                               So,stop yourself from giving any clarifications why you did or did not, stop pleasing others, stop confirming stop taking permission to live your own life . Because if you yourself are not sure about your  own decision then you cannot make others understand its significance.Believing yourself is very important in order to defeat the demon of doubt and to raise your self esteem. For you give the world a permission to dominate your thinking and your life if you doubt yourself. Just THINK UPON.........

Forgiveness The Act Of BRAVERY

How many of you have felt sorry when you had committed a mistake? I think all of you!

Had you apologized? OK.



But think you were the other person, and someone else is apologizing to you. How many of you have forgiven that someone? Many times Right?



But there are many times when we don't forgive the other person because we are so angry on him/her. We keep that act in mind and that anger comes back in the form of hatred when we see that person.



The act of forgiveness is the act of bravery . Whenever you are angry on someone, think of the time when you pray to God, "Forgive us, our sins as we forgive those who sin against us." But do we do that actually?



God is so merciful, he forgets and forgives us of our sins. Look around in the midst of kids. See their small fights and quarrels. And see how quickly they forgive others and forget what the other kid has done.But see to ourselves......



Do we have the God like character or that of kids to forgive and forget? A big NO. We never forget what the other person has done to us. We never forgive him/her. But we can!...............   We could have done that without having the feeling of revenge, without burning our inner soul. Think when God can forgive you for every single  blunder you  commit on a day scale then why can't you?



Whenever you feel hatred for someone and do not wish to forgive , think of God the Merciful.

He has forgiven you, You can also. For the person who forgives is great and love is propagated in hearts with such an act. It is a tough job but remember YOU GAIN  YOUR FREEDOM WHEN YOU FORGIVE,  FROM THE  CONSTANT MENTAL TORTURE AND PAIN . Just THINK UPON............................

Hidden Potential

We are afraid of the Blackouts but have you ever thought about the the blackout that is inside you?



You are not afraid of the dark, you are just afraid what you might encounter there.

Remember when you close your eyes, it is dark, you see no light. This darkness, this blackout is where Universe began. All stars and planets in the dark universe, evolving and again diminishing into the same darkness.

Black is not the colour of Destruction but also  the colour of surrendering. Surrendering to the END. Surrendering to the FATE. Every galaxy evolves, has its life cycle and then surrenders to the Dark. The Darkness is the hidden potential, the hidden  talents, the hidden life, the HIDDEN TREASURE.

Realizing your Dreams

LIFE is realizing our DREAMS, our ASPIRATIONS, our AMBITIONS. We spend our life thinking about best possible jobs which earn us more, but we forget  that life is more than that. Every person is born with talents. Some discover them and get into fulfilling the purpose of their life.



While  many others overlook  and see them as leisure time activity. And go on with their work which earn them  money and social status.

This is the pain of today's youngsters, from childhood the things that they liked so much to do, the things that gave them immense happiness are told to be waste of time. Money has become a driving force today, pushing us out of our creativity and dreams. Many die with Music still in them. The unfulfilled dreams and ambitions make a  person bitter. Not only with himself but with others too.

We get  life just once, one time. The gifts that god has given us make us different from others. Why to become a crowd that follows but have a following instead? I know money making  is not that easy (you might say) but not  appreciating the talents you have is really a pity. Money can buy all the luxury but not happiness, it only comes with doing something you love to. It is giving respect to who you are. Everybody loves Amitabh Bachchan, but he respected his talent, he grew his fondness for acting, many people discouraged him because of his height and heavy voice . But  the world knows him today as the actor of the millennium. Dream with your talents they wont let you down, dream with your capability and you would never fail. Don't become ATMs but humans who dare to dream and win .

Save a Girl Child....

Some time ago, when I was a little girl, I used to love my life and felt I was in complete happiness, when suddenly one day this dream broke as I read about people aborting girl child in India. HOW PITY.....  The very essence of creation, the most beautiful creation of GOD, how people of a land which is called spiritual, do this! How can they kill a child before she is born thinking of the consequences they fear.



Well what  shocked me was  that in India a GIRL CHILD is considered to be A BURDEN. There are some social problems like dowry ,death rituals , property rights, family name, etc...... The land I knew as spiritual, tolerant in herself had the biggest irony  - the country is HER not HIM, our "motherland" and still people are doubtful about a child so innocent who is not even born, a mixed expression of humour and sadness comes to me when I think of it.

The present is what past has made it. The attitude of man dominated society has changed the overall look and texture of our levels of acceptance of a women's behavioural pattern.Due to the so called vulnerabilities we have made her so weak that she needs a man to protect her from all the uncertain activities going in the society.Women is weak physically but emotionally she is a hard rock.That is what she is expected to be.She is the source of love,care and every emotion you can think of.But the irony is that a person who is a mother of a generation is looked down upon as a burden.Something which should be seen as a red alert.....If a woman is killed in the womb ,the entire generation of human being is destroyed but with that a person a child is challenged her right to live......her basic right of existence.



Well, the present situation is that the sex ratio has gone down so much that the government is in dilemma about what the UNICEF will have to say. The problem will not save the then girls or women from the evils of the society as many think. The less in number of girls would be subjected to a society where they'll have to fear the male who outnumber them.



The world has changed a lot , WOMEN are getting their share in every field all round the world, but their basic right of existence is questioned here. If we are not letting them take birth then no matter what reforms are - they are meaningless! I think a girl is a reason to smile for a father. I have read somewhere that where a father is not moved by his son's success, he gets painful by his daughter's tears. And how come the social evils force couples to kill their baby, I don't want to understand if I am to.



From birth to death woman is subjected to many harsh conditions.When a girl child is born ,people do not feel happy .They console saying its god's will as if a girl child is a curse for the family.People tend to forget that she is as important as a boy .Its just are perception, our  view that she is not that important.In ancient times women held high place.Deities like Lakshmi, Saraswati, Parvati ,etc rivers like Ganga,Godavari,Krishna,etc were worshipped.





But with time the place of women in society deteriorated. Women were not allowed to learn, i.e.they were deprived of education .Due to superstitions and social beliefs child marriage was practiced. Upon marriage dowry conditions .On the  birth of child the maternal family had to provide for funds and and on each occasion the girl's family has to pay cash or in kind Upon death of the husband they were subjected to cruel practice of SATI ,burning with the husband's pyres.Such was  the whole scenario in post independent India. Women was considered a burden. the present era though is not also harsh but fatal for women. Incidents like rapes, molestation, honour-killing,dowry still prevail while making it more dangerous to be a girl a woman...





Government can only make reforms but what about our own conscience?

People have to shed off the cloak of man and woman complex and see both as divine creation of god so humble so potentially equal.....Till we ourself uplift our thinking we cant do any good to the society as a whole .Woman is integral to the society and its falling number is a horror siren that is ringing on full volume.

 Educating people about the consequences of this gender going out of reach can significantly help.While there'll be number of boys in the country but  comparing to the number of girls,there will always be instability.



Its not India I am talking of and to, I am talking to each individual round the earth that 'girls are angels, let them fly, they'll make your world a blessing'. Give them a chance to enter your world. I have observed kids both boys n girls, the most wonderful thing that distinguishes them is that if you cry, a girl child would come and put her hand on your shoulder and try to console you but not that rat whom you bring all those chocolates. She would reveal every secret to her father b'coz a father is every girl's first love, whom she can't forget for any diamond in the world. She would fight with neighbors if somebody tried to scare her little brother , the one with whom she would fight without any reason but, for any reason not let anybody else touch him in the world.



She is a beautiful flower in God's garden, he has made her so for you to learn that when GOD is in a mood of love, forgiveness he creates a girl child. When you ask for forgiveness, he makes a beautiful gift for the mankind, the woman is his loving gesture!



                   I am neither a teacher nor a preacher........ I am a woman ....... and it hurts me more to read in news what is going on in the society......  I can only ask people like you who are reading this, please respect a girl child she is not a burden, give her a chance and she'll not let you down.... you'll be proud to be parent of a girl who'll fill your life with happiness, beauty and joy..... just let her live and help make this world a beautiful place and safer for her and others to live.......Even though the UNICEF is trying to get with nations around the world to have strict rules for the protection of girl child but it is up to the people to understand what can be the consequences if girls perish ....... imagine .... just imagine ............A WORLD WITHOUT WOMEN ..............................can you imagine even a day without your mom, sister or your wife. THINK UPON.......